What happend to Virtualmin? Cant remove bind!

Yes, but right now Debian 13 has conflicting packages. cloud-init is not compatible with firewalld, and installing the latter will remove the former.

Yes, try the following:

sudo sh -c "$(curl -fsSL https://raw.githubusercontent.com/virtualmin/virtualmin-install/refs/heads/master/virtualmin-install.sh)" -- --bundle LAMP --branch prerelease