Augh! HELP please... ipv6 breaking my email, and I can't stop it :(

Yes and no the chattr for the resolv.conf you can use however is on every OS.

Is the only part i can help , but i don’t understand your problem further.

"If you really aren’t using DHCP, my suspicion is that your provider is overwriting your resolv.conf file with a fresh one anytime you reboot. You may want to discuss that with them.

nameserver 127.0.0.1

to /etc/resolv.conf - than run this command

chattr +i /etc/resolv.conf

to make the file resolv.conf immutable (will no longer be able to be overwritten on boot)"