Scheduled Backups - Will not copy backup over to remote server - SHH Custom Port

Hi,

I have been struggling with this the whole day and I am still not able to get this to work!!

I want to setup a Scheduled Backup to backup to my second server.

I have set this up to backup over SSH with a custom port.

Everthing connects and start to backup, but it fails every time it has to start copying the file over to the remote server.

I have read all the forums about this and have tried everything - The file is not very large - I have doen a test SSH connection from the server to the remote server - I have done a test SCP from the server to the remote server - I have tried different users - I have tried wrong passwords (which does not let it ever start the backup so it means that my information is correct)

Here is the summary below:

Creating backup for virtual server XXXXXX.org
Copying virtual server configuration …
… done
Backing up Cron jobs …
… none defined.

Copying records in DNS domain …
… done

Saving mail aliases …
… done

Saving mail and FTP users …
… done

Backing up mail and FTP user Cron jobs …
… none to backup

Copying Apache virtual host configuration …
… done

Copying Apache log files …
… done

Copying SSL Apache virtual host configuration and certificate …
… done

Copying Logrotate configuration …
… done

Dumping MySQL database aihuimin_joomla …
… done

Backing up Webmin ACL files …
… done

Creating TAR file of home directory …
… done

Uploading archive to SSH server XX.XXX.XXX.XX …
… upload failed! ssh: connect to host XX.XXX.XXX.XX port XXXX: Connection refused lost connection

Please could someone help me out!!!

Bump!!