We’ve removed that from the wizard, AFAIK. It was just a UI for selecting among the example configs shipped with MySQL/Mariadb, and the upstream stopped shipping those example configs and stopped suggesting people use them for “tuning”.
In general, most people should just leave it alone, unless they’re going to invest the time to analyze their specific hardware and usage patterns to tune it appropriately.
The OOM killer doesn’t necessarily kill the process that caused the memory exhaustion. In fact, it rarely does. It usually kills something mostly innocent, because the kernel tries to figure out what will be least disruptive, which means something that’s not very active, relatively speaking, but also large enough to free up enough memory to satisfy the recent allocations.